Good things about being gay
Can they see me? Am I safe? One staff member explores ways to honor queerness and create the outdoors more inclusive and welcoming for all people.
It was a Monday morning all-hands call a couple of years ago, and we were all crammed into a encounter room at the DC headquarters. I was multitasking on my laptop while my teammates shared updates on what they were working on that week. The voice of one of my colleagues, Chad Lord, floated on the periphery.
“…and then later this week I’m speaking on a panel for Pride, testifying about…” he trailed off, searching for the right phrase, and then ended glibly, “…being gay outside.”
Giggles spread about the room. Chad looked a little surprised, favor he didn’t intend for it to be amusing. It was kind of funny, but he meant it literally, and not a lot of people in the room understood that.
I did.
Maybe my colleagues pictured a drag queen hiking or leading some kind of sing-along à la “The Sound of Music.” But in existence, being gay outside means so many different things. Good things, like a camping trip with your friends, sitting around the fire happily defying the stereotype of rugged outdoorsmen. Or not so fine things. A hi
How to Be Happy as a Gay Man
I’m an advice columnist for the Here’s my answer to the following question, sent by a reader.
Dear Adam,
I have a great partner, interesting job, cute canine, and enough money to buy most things I want. This is supposed to be gay heaven. And yet, I’m not happy. I often sense like “is this all there is?” Why can’t I just appreciate all the good I have?
Signed,
Disappointed in Denver
Dear Disappointed in Denver,
You’re not alone with these feelings. In proof, they are pretty shared. But we rarely communicate about it. If we do, we fear we’ll sound spoiled.
There’s a lot of research being done on happiness these days.
We think what will produce us most happy is a great job, a devoted boyfriend or girlfriend, and a beautiful apartment.
However, the research makes it clear that the strongest source of happiness is the feeling of entity connected and part of a larger whole.
That sounds old-fashioned. Like we should all be in church on Sundays. And the majority of LGBTQ people lost interest in religion a long time ago, especially when it became clear that we weren’t welcome in most churches.
And yet, the feeling of “is this all there is?” persists. The heart
10 Things Gay Men Should Discuss
Top 10 Things Homosexual Men Should Discuss with Their Healthcare Provider
Following are the health issues GLMA&#x;s healthcare providers have identified as most commonly of concern for gay men. While not all of these items apply to everyone, it&#x;s wise to be aware of these issues.
1. Come Out to Your Primary Healthcare Provider
In order to provide you with the best protect possible, your primary tend provider should know you are gay. Knowing your sexual orientation and sexual behaviors will help your healthcare provider offer the correct preventative screenings, and order the appropriate tests. If your provider does not seem comfortable with you as a queer man, find another deliverer. You can consult the LGBTQ+ Healthcare Directory for facilitate finding a provider.
2. Reducing the Risk of Getting or Transmitting HIV
Many men who have sex with men are at an increased risk of getting HIV, but the ability to prevent the acquisition and transmission of HIV has improved drastically in recent years. If you are living with HIV, anti-HIV medications can serve you live a normal lifespan and prevent you from transmitting HIV to your sex partners (Treatment as
Why Being Gay Is Greater Than Being Straight
Disclaimer: This post is meant to be humorous and light-hearted. It is not meant to offend or belittle any individual or group.
Being gay is awesome! I mean, who wouldn&#;t yearn to be part of a community that knows how to party and have a good time? Straight people, that&#;s who! Being straight is appreciate having a giant stick up your butt, while being gay is appreciate dancing on a rainbow. Personally, I cannot envision my life any other way than being queer . Hot guys, creating my own definition of what a relationship should be, and the endless parties (joking).
Being gay does include some amazing perks that being heterosexual just cannot give you and today we are going to look at a scant of those. Who knows, maybe you will identify a few that you didnt know you had access to.
Being gay is awesome
Being gay is not just awesome, it is a beautiful and empowering experience.
One of the most incredible aspects of organism gay is the opportunity for self-discovery and self-acceptance. Coming to terms with your identity and embracing your authentic self can be a journey of growth and liberation. Entity gay also allows for a unique perspective on love
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