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Straight couple opens Long Island LGBTQ+ bar to construct a safe space

OCEANSIDE, Brand-new York -- As soon as patrons step through the doors of the Born This Way block, better known as BTW, co-owner Gina Wuestmann gives them a warm greeting.

Within five minutes, she's either offering them a free shot or explaining how she and her husband opened their bar on the eve of the pandemic shutdown last year.

Wuestmann and her husband, David Wuestmann, who are a straight couple, often uncover themselves explaining why they decided to open this safe space for the LGBTQ+ community in the Long Island hamlet of Oceanside.

David's response is always the same.

"Gina and I are allies of the community, and we both felt that this was an underserved community," he said. "There are not too many places on Long Island where people can be themselves. This was just our lead to and our mission. We're here to provide territory to people who desire to be themselves."

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Gina has been in the bar business for over 30 years, and many of her loyal customers would narrate her how they wanted a place where they could f

Avast, ye Pirates, Rogues, Scalawags, Wenches and Bonnie Lasses! Ye be finding yerself at the finest lock beside the ocean.

We are a full service block with a wide selection of liquors, wines and beers both tap and bottle. We have Daily, Weekly and Monthly Consume Specials! We are equipped with a pool table, Foosball table, 2 lock top electronic games and an internet jukebox. There are 2 big screen TV’s for the games!

We have regular parties throughout the year, serving catered complimentary buffets and oftimes throwing beads Mardi Gras style. Check the calendar on our wall and our Facebook events page for regular updates.

The Haunted Brain Saloon in Oceanside, CA opened on August 26, 2002. In November 2011, we were voted the Foremost Bar in a Military Town for Oceanside in Maxim Magazine’s Salute to the Military. We encourage all of our Marines, Soldiers and Sailors 100%!

A reminder, you must be 21 years old and up with proper, valid identification on you at all times to be in the bar.
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Drink Specials Every Day!

 



Oceanside LGBTQ City Guide

Oceanside is a quintessential Southern California coastal city. It’s charming, eclectic, laid-back, welcoming, and wonderful. Oceanside has a thriving art and culinary scene, plenty of opportunities for outdoor fun, and a slower pace than nearby San Diego, while being close enough for residents to enjoy all that the bigger urban area offers to see and do too. In so many ways, Oceanside would make a wonderful place to call home.

A Stare at Oceanside's History

Situated on the Pacific coastline, Oceanside was so named for that very reason. The area that is now Oceanside was initially occupied by the Spanish in the 1700s. Many missions founded by the Spanish in the area including the well-known mission San Luis Rey still stand today. When the area became part of the United States, the city continued to expand, both as a wharf and important location for fishing and also as a popular tourist destination. Today, the area remains beautiful, and vibrant, packed of friendly people, and much to see and do. Truly would construct a great place to call home.

A Few Joy Facts About Oceanside

  • San Diego County has five historic Spanish missions in total, but the missi

    OCEANSIDE —— A small building on Coast Highway in SouthOceanside that for a decade was home to a gay bar is now trying toreinvent itself as a family restaurant, the owner saidWednesday.

    Latreasa Harris, who purchased the exclude Greystokes with herhusband in 2000, said that because of declining patronage from thearea’s gay community, the pair reopened the establishment lastFriday as “The Beach Club” —— a family restaurant by day and bar bynight.

    While gay customers are still welcome, Harris said, they’re nolonger the bar’s target audience.

    Harris, who said about 70 percent of Greystokes’ customers weregay men, noted that on many nights “it was like a ghost town” inher bar. She said she regularly lost customers to Hillcrest, aneighborhood in San Diego where there are several bars in a smallarea catering to gay men.

    According to Harris, who said she’s a heterosexual woman withfive grandchildren, even though the business at 1903 S. CoastHighway. was losing $20,000 a year, she was required to keepGreystokes a same-sex attracted bar for at least three years under the terms ofthe purchase accord she signed in 2000.

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